“Is love is in the air?”

I have told you, reader I have learnt to love Mr. Rochester: I could not unlove him now, merely because I found that he had ceased to notice me... (188)


Dear Jane,

Here's a few words of advice about love. Love is blind, but you cant be naive about your love for Mr. Rochester. The key to love and relationships are trust and honesty. You say you've “learnt to love him” well that's not good because you should only want the best for yourself. Never settle for less because that means you would be lowering your standards. I know that being bold about love is a new adventure for the woman during your time period, that's why you have to make a change. I know how it feels to think you love someone, everybody goes through this emotionally phase at some point in their life. Its not the easiest thing, but if you approach the situation correctly, then it becomes easier because all the secrets, emotions, and feelings will be recognized and not hidden.

Love is all about sacrifice and true commitment . If you are sacrificing the things you most enjoy for the person you love, then you are showing a sign of caring. If you have a true commitment with a person you will tell them what's on your mind even if it may hurt them, which also goes hand and hand with trust and honesty. If a man doesn't have his word, then he has nothing. Wealth and status has nothing to do with true love because true love comes from the heart. Everyone who has there first encounter with true love is going to make mistakes because there so caught up in the moment, but don't let your mistakes keep lingering on until you cant control yourself. The first thing I think you and Mr. Rochester should do is just talk about the situation and just let it all out because the games that you guys are playing with each other will eventually lead to destruction. If the problem doesn't get solved sooner or later it will result into a empty space between the relationship of friends because your love encounters were never sorted out. No one can tell you what to do in a love situation you're only going to do what you want until you can actually feel the pain that love may bring. Love is not something that can not be taught but only learned by the the mistakes that you have made.