Think and take things slow

Jane, I understand your confusion. Mr. Rochester is your boss and you have to keep your work life and love life from mixing together. But, I will admit things happen and in your case, it did. You have fallen in love with an older man, who happens to be your boss. Mr. Rochester would not be a great match for you, because there are certain roadblocks that might come up if your relationship with him gets into something more than a work relationship. Jane, you have to get away from that fog that has blinded you. Mr. Rochester is older, wealthier, of a higher social status, and he's your boss. This is your first love and you think that everything is crystal clear and happy, but it just so happens that the person you have fallen in love isn't responding to you the way a man should be if he is interested in you. “I saw he was going to marry her, for family, perhaps political reasons; because her rank and connections suited him; I felt he had not given her his love, and that her qualifications were ill adapted to win from him that treasure.” Jane, when you noticed that Mr. Rochester is getting married and that he was doing it for money and not for love you should have packed your things and started heading for the door. The only thing your presence in his house will do, is cause disturbance to his marriage. Especially if he has feelings for you but doesn't want to man up and tell you. Mr. Rochester is an older man that should know what he wants in life, but maybe he's confused, because there's chemistry in your conversations with him. If he likes you the way you like him, who knows, but take things slow and be careful of the decisions you make. Remember love blinds.